Thursday, December 14, 2006

Where was this woman when I needed her?

  • The Secret Language of Babies

  • (from the Oprah Show)
    For millions of sleep-deprived mothers around the world, this woman's findings could be a miracle! Priscilla Dunstan, a mom from Australia with a special gift, says she's unlocked the secret language of babies.

    When Priscilla was a toddler, her parents discovered she had a photographic memory for sound. At age 4, she could hear a Mozart concert on the piano and play it back note for note.

    Priscilla says her gift has helped her hear a special "second language" beyond English, allowing her to detect moods and even diagnose illnesses! "Other people might hear a note but I sort of get the whole symphony," Priscilla says. "So when someone's speaking, I get all this information that other people might not pick up."

    That mysterious second language took on an astounding new meaning when Priscilla became a mother to her baby, Tom. "Because of my gift for sound, I was able to pick out certain patterns in his cries and then remember what those patterns were later on when he cried again," Priscilla says. "I realized that other babies were saying the same words."

    After testing her baby language theory on more than 1,000 infants around the world, Priscilla says there are five words that all babies 0–3 months old say—regardless of race and culture:
    • Neh="I'm hungry"
    • Owh="I'm sleepy"
    • Heh="I'm experiencing discomfort"
    • Eair="I have lower gas"
    • Eh="I need to burp"
    Listen to the secret language of babies! (The link above has a video clip. Or, if the link doesn't work, as mine often don't, just Google "Oprah" and "Baby Language" and you will find it.)

    Those "words" are actually sound reflexes, Priscilla says. "Babies all around the world have the same reflexes, and they therefore make the same sounds," she says. If parents don't respond to those reflexes, Priscilla says the baby will eventually stop using them.

    Priscilla recommends that parents listen for those words in a baby's pre-cry before they start crying hysterically. She says there is no one sound that's harder to hear than others because it varies by individual. She also says some babies use some words more than others.

    The Dunstan Baby Language DVD is currently available. Visit to order your copy. (There's a book on it, too.)

    Priscilla met with eight new mothers, along with their nine newborn babies, to help them understand the universal language their children speak. Each mom says they cope with their crying child differently. "My husband and I have a list," says Jessica, the mother of twins. "First it's diaper change. Feed. Check the clothing. Put the pacifier in the mouth. Give them a bath. … In the end, nothing works."

    The constant crying creates a lot of stress and frustration for these moms. "You just feel absolutely helpless. You want so much to be the one to comfort them and to kind of shelter them from whatever they're feeling," says new mom Danielle.

    After Priscilla explains the cries, the moms are shocked to learn their babies are actually talking to them! After two hours with Priscilla, all nine babies are comfortable, happy and quiet.

    "Who would have thought that all of our babies are trying to tell us something and we just didn't know it the whole time," says Erica, another new mom. "So it's amazing."

    My thoughts are, of COURSE their babies are trying to tell them something! It's just that finding out exactly what that communication means is one of the tough parts about being a parent. I want this woman to come to my work and detect the moods and secret feelings of my co-workers. Well, maybe not. Have a great day!


    Blogger Happy and Blue 2 said...

    This is an interesting post. As a single parent with an infant I did become tuned into the sounds and what they meant.
    I certainly never developed her gift though. Now when I hear a baby crying I just want it to shush,ha,ha..

    7:23 AM  
    Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I think it's fascinating that it's "cross-culture." My mother had her own language up until she went to elementary school. It was consistent but only her sister and and auntie could speak it "fluently." That's a different case but always blows my mind when people do that.

    8:00 AM  
    Blogger Rainypete said...

    Maybe so, but is she talented enough to figure out what teenagers are saying when they're on the phone? That's like some kid of deranged code worthy of spy transmissions!

    11:53 AM  

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